Somewhere along the way, the rules of manhood got confusing. The goalposts moved, then moved again. Then someone lit them on fire. In the wake of all this “progress,” we forgot to be men. How to fix things, build a life, and love.
How to Man is an attempt to steady the ship for a new generation on the cusp of manhood. It’s not a memoir, and it’s definitely not self-help. It’s a collection of experiences, observations, and lost skills from a father trying to figure out what’s worth holding onto and worth passing along. Some entries are funny. Some are blunt. None of them pretend to have the answers.
This is a personal book, written for my son, and maybe for anyone else trying to get manhood right.






